46th Post
Another day to pass. Finally my parents are back from China, and they bought me a couple of shirts. Just when i was about to come to terms in staying in a quiet house. Oh well. time to get used to the noise again.
Tonight's class was pretty much ordinary. Other than my classmate (Which i shall call 'C') getting into a slight quarrel over some issues about an i-pod with another fellow classmate. Now i know why the other girls (which i shall name 'A' and 'B') left class after break time. A pity i was upstairs chatting with my other friends. Makes me wonder, why do some people argue over what is actually a small matter that could have been settled peacefully without all the yelling and screaming? When one screams at the other during a quarrel, it only goes to show that the person has got no confidence and is resorting to the "Scare the other party first" tactic. Not to mention vulgarities being hurled as well, which gives additional proof of absolute immaturity. At 14 or 16 it's excusable, but at 20? and still using abusive words? The friend (Girl 'B') also, absolutely brainless. Why? because she failed to study the situation, and for the fear of being rebuked by her friend later with the saying " why just now you never help me?" Thus, from not being her problem became her problem and her reputation goes down the drain.
At the end of the day, i wonder. Is it human nature to always act on impulse ,only to regret it as being stupid and immature when one reflects back. Is it too much of an effort to take some time out to study the tactical situation split second before taking action or speaking? From what i heard from my classmate, i can tell that its pretty much a senseless argument. I even wonder if Girl 'A' even knows the meaning of "I want to talk to you, please go to one side". I'm pretty sure even an idiot can tell you that it means that they wish to talk in private, without causing further embarrassment to both parties. Instead Girl 'A' calls Girl 'C' to one side and continues to holler at her. Makes no difference if Girl 'A' was hollering in the canteen or near the toilets. Guess, it's because Girl 'A' was in the wrong, because she borrows Girl 'C' 's boyfriend's i-pod for 6 months and than quietly returns it after much pestering in a scratched condition, with no offer to make compensation or whatsoever. Imagine if it's your own stuff and you get it back in a bad condition. Will that not piss you off ? Is it so difficult to take care of other people's stuff like as though it's your own ? It's bad enough that one has to lend from others, what's worse it that one only returns after much pestering and hounding from the other party.
Oh well, i wash my hands off this matter. I got much better things to bother, like my report which is due this Thursday on the 11th. And so with this final paragraph, i urge you readers to always study the situation around you before you take action or speak, for once done, its too late for regrets
Tonight's class was pretty much ordinary. Other than my classmate (Which i shall call 'C') getting into a slight quarrel over some issues about an i-pod with another fellow classmate. Now i know why the other girls (which i shall name 'A' and 'B') left class after break time. A pity i was upstairs chatting with my other friends. Makes me wonder, why do some people argue over what is actually a small matter that could have been settled peacefully without all the yelling and screaming? When one screams at the other during a quarrel, it only goes to show that the person has got no confidence and is resorting to the "Scare the other party first" tactic. Not to mention vulgarities being hurled as well, which gives additional proof of absolute immaturity. At 14 or 16 it's excusable, but at 20? and still using abusive words? The friend (Girl 'B') also, absolutely brainless. Why? because she failed to study the situation, and for the fear of being rebuked by her friend later with the saying " why just now you never help me?" Thus, from not being her problem became her problem and her reputation goes down the drain.
At the end of the day, i wonder. Is it human nature to always act on impulse ,only to regret it as being stupid and immature when one reflects back. Is it too much of an effort to take some time out to study the tactical situation split second before taking action or speaking? From what i heard from my classmate, i can tell that its pretty much a senseless argument. I even wonder if Girl 'A' even knows the meaning of "I want to talk to you, please go to one side". I'm pretty sure even an idiot can tell you that it means that they wish to talk in private, without causing further embarrassment to both parties. Instead Girl 'A' calls Girl 'C' to one side and continues to holler at her. Makes no difference if Girl 'A' was hollering in the canteen or near the toilets. Guess, it's because Girl 'A' was in the wrong, because she borrows Girl 'C' 's boyfriend's i-pod for 6 months and than quietly returns it after much pestering in a scratched condition, with no offer to make compensation or whatsoever. Imagine if it's your own stuff and you get it back in a bad condition. Will that not piss you off ? Is it so difficult to take care of other people's stuff like as though it's your own ? It's bad enough that one has to lend from others, what's worse it that one only returns after much pestering and hounding from the other party.
Oh well, i wash my hands off this matter. I got much better things to bother, like my report which is due this Thursday on the 11th. And so with this final paragraph, i urge you readers to always study the situation around you before you take action or speak, for once done, its too late for regrets
